This Thanksgiving, I experienced a unique gift: time alone. With a four-day weekend ahead of me, I found myself surrounded by the stunning beauty of Squamish—mountains, flowing streams, and nature trails beckoning for exploration. Instead of the usual chaotic family gatherings, I relished the freedom of a solo holiday.

During my walks along the Squamish Estuary, I felt a sense of peace wash over me. No agenda, no turkey to roast, and no cleanup to tackle. Instead, I dove into my dissertation research, enjoyed a good book, and even whipped up a delicious lunch, all while taking my time.

This period of solitude led me to reflect on my connections with family, the meaning of autonomy, and the significance of achievement. I’m grateful for the autonomy to shape my life, the milestone of becoming a Ph.D. candidate, and the joy of welcoming my fourth grandchild.

So, what about you? Did you spend Thanksgiving in the bustling company of loved ones, or, like me, find a rare moment of solitude? Regardless of how you celebrated, I hope you found something to be thankful for—big or small. Click to continue reading.