Regret as a Compass: A Minimalist Approach to Growth
Regret is often seen as something to avoid, but what if it could be a guide instead? Looking back, my biggest regrets weren’t about what I did, but why I made those choices in the first place. Without a clear vision, I found myself making costly decisions—like moving too many times—chasing an undefined idea of success. It wasn’t until I embraced minimalism that I gained the clarity to align my choices with what truly mattered. In this post, I explore how regret, when viewed through a minimalist lens, can be a powerful tool for growth and intentional living.
Minimalism and the Good Life: Redefining Success Beyond the Office
As we settle into February, the initial buzz of New Year’s resolutions begins to fade, making it perfect time to reflect—not just on what we want to achieve, but on how we want to live. To me, this means redefining success beyond the office, focusing on purpose, connection, and simplicity rather than constant busyness.
In my latest blog post, I explore how minimalism has transformed my perspective on success. Gone are the days of retail therapy. Instead, I’ve discovered the freedom to focus on meaningful work, nurture deeper connections, and grow with intention. Minimalism has given me the clarity to make space for what truly matters.
The Minimalist’s Monologue in Las Vegas
I traveled to Las Vegas for a professional conference. I left questioning everything I knew about restraint.
From the moment I arrived, it was an avalanche of sensory overload—flashing lights, jarring sounds, an indoor maze of scents, and slot machines everywhere… even at the airport, just in case I wanted to gamble away my remaining dignity before takeoff. Read on to find out more about the duality of reality and my lessons learned.
Riding Through Life: Minimalist Lessons from a Bike
Have you ever rediscovered something from your past and realized it held valuable lessons about balance, persistence, and gratitude? During a recent visit from my daughter, I went on my first bike ride in nearly 40 years. What started as a simple outdoor excursion reconnected me with memories from my childhood in Hong Kong and university days in California. Along the way, I uncovered timeless lessons about resilience, lifelong learning, and the importance of gratitude—especially for those who’ve shaped our lives.
Let this story inspire you to revisit old skills, honor your mentors, and embrace new challenges. Life, much like cycling, always has something to teach us when we’re willing to hop back on and pedal forward.
Minimalist Midnight: A Counter Countdown
Here’s to closing the year with clarity and stepping into 2025 with intention. Whether you’ve let go of a popcorn popper or embraced a new mindset, every small step counts toward a lighter, brighter life. Let’s make this the year we focus on what truly matters—less clutter, more purpose, and endless possibilities. Cheers to living simply and thriving fully in the New Year!
When Life Edits Your Script - Discovering Purpose Through Pain
Life has a way of rewriting even the best-laid plans. For Mary Lou, a gifted storyteller with dreams of Hollywood success, a devastating accident shifted her path in ways she never imagined. Stripped of the ambitions she once held dear, she discovered a deeper sense of purpose—not in fame or accolades, but in a life pared down to its essence: faith, service, and storytelling.
Her journey reminds us that setbacks often reveal the essence of who we are. Success isn’t about having everything—it’s about cherishing what we have and using it well.
What has life taught you about finding purpose in unexpected places?